My LoveStory…
Good evening friends & teachers…I am here to share my love story, the story of matchmaking. I couldn’t control urge to
share it because u r so near and dear to me. Please promise me u r not going to
tell it anybody. If u also couldn’t resist the urge to tell somebody, please
tell him or her not to tell anybody.
At late 20 when somebody especially teenagers calls u UNCLE
u feel molested, verbally by the word of 05 letters abuse. Stick and stones may
break my bones but Uncle Word hearts me forever.
Late 20 the age of receding hairline & exceeding
waistline. When your friend shout “Dude I have grey hair & u shout back u
have hair. Ur life starts to change. In 20 u r like Dude which pub u r heading
today but at late 20 u r like sir where r u going today. When u c 20 year old
guy dating 20 year old girl…..Man what a stud he is ! but u c late 20 year old
guy dating 20 year old girl …he is still stud boss. Unfortunately not everyone
thinks in this way.
If u r late 20 & still unmarried people start guessing
is he G*Y…at 18 u get to drive, at 18+ you get access to all educational
websites & at 25 u dream of becoming CEO of company & at late 20 u
start dreaming of kids they will become 01 day
CEO.
Considering all this bitter fact of life I decided to fell
in love & eventually get married. I uploaded my bio data on various
matrimony & social websites. when I this guy with average looks, average
frame , average education , average salary & lot of other averages received
proposal from 01 girl from our community name Prachi extremely pretty ,
intelligent B tech from IIT later on MBA
from IIM, 06 digit salary per month . I thought of my career ambition .I always
wanted to be house husband. my career ambition was about to become reality .
Yes, Of course I love u too was my instant reply, how can I decline this
proposal? Little did I know falling in love is not a matter of choice?
The following 03 incidents made me realize this.
Incident 1
Introduction of
Prachi to my parents
I went home; prachi was standing right behind me. I rang the
bell my mother opened the door , I said
baba is around ? She called baba, I was just checking if he is around..Baba
& aai in front of me. I was not able
to utter a word, nervous, leg shaking, from nowhere this intelligent girl of
mine pushed me aside fell on to their feet, the way she was holding their feet it felt to
me as if she was blackmailing them, ki u
better bless me else…. & then my
mother picked up her, hugged her, kissed her, within next 02 minutes 04 aunties
in my building got to know her, by the end of 05th min my brother who leaves in Himachal Pradesh as IFS was speaking to her on mobile, while
all this happening I was like aww.
Slowly I looked to words my baba , my father & me have lot of things
in common , & that day I got to know 1 more. Because he too was aww. He was
more lost than I was! Slowly baba realised he was head of my family how can u
look lost. He corrected his gesture, posture & asked. What is this? I said baba
you could not have better than this. As if u couldn’t have found better girl,
accept it , accept us. He thought for good hard 10 seconds & said huuhh ok…Instant
approval from my parents my ego was 100 % higher than normal.
Incident 2
Introduction of
prachi to my friends.
All of us got 02 kinds of friends,
category 1- Friends/well-wishers (of your friends some 05 %
of those people.)
& the other category friends / competitors.
Those people who always keep track on your life. The
remaining 95%
So I went to first category of guys n said he guys meet
prachi my new first girlfriend.
Ohh , nice, good, well done man
Then the moment I was waiting for I went to other category
of friends looked into their eyes & said, u always wanted to know how much
I scored in social studies now beat this. Now expression on their faces ….n I
was Yes, yes yes salo. & then
congrets yaar, well done , well done bro…
I turned around & heared them say…how did he do that
& me yes yes. My ego again went 150% higher than normal.
Incident 03… any
guesses…
Introduction of me to
her folks
Do u remember where love story was started on happy note
right?
Where is the end ---introduction of Deepak to her folks?
Prachi said hey Deepak u just go up its flat no 102, I will
come, I have call to make. I said ok, not a problem. With ego 150% higher than
normal combination of salman khan, sunjay dutt in me… I went ( in rapchik
styile) stood in front of first aunt…..sure of appreciation …she looked at me
& said why didn’t u come yesterday..me “come yesterday”? No? again she “ what no?
aren’t u supposed to come every Sunday to clean garbage . It is at that corner
go and clean it”. What? I cracked the case it was wrong house.
“Hello everyone meet Deepak “..no wrong house this time. All
of sudden my ego was minus 200% I was (steering
down & silent) & then
fortunately all attention moved towards her. Everybody started to questioning
to her as why u want to marry this fellow, why do u want to marry this fellow.
What is up to him? What is wrong with u? Which dog has beaten u? Are yaar I m
standing there only , give some respect.
U want to call me dog or whatever do that when I m not there. & then prachi
kept on defending my case , kept on telling them why we make best of couple ,
why she loves me & why will we live happy ever after & then looking at
the amount of love she had for me , trust she had in us , I realise the factor
that I had chosen initially to fallen in love with her were insignificant in
front of her, compare to this love she
had for me & for first time I truly fell in love.
